What if he/she gets angry ?
1. Identify why
Problems will not be solved until you know why. Listen to what he/she said. Is that your problems? Is that something you both discussed before but it happens again? If just let the problems go, the potential anger will break out and even more escalated.
2. Apologise and mean it
If you did something wrong, he/she just simply needs your sincere apology and promise for not doing again. Your love will give you a chance if you mean it.
3. Give a bit of silence
When he/she doesn’t want to talk anymore, please do not push him/her to give you a response. The conversation will end up if he/she gets annoyed. Why don’t give some time for both of you to calm down and figure out the solution?
4. Do gentle gestures and touch
When both of you are calm, make he/she feel respectful and loved. Gentle rub the back, hold hands, give a hug to show you wish to connect with him/her again. If he/she wants to talk, they will show you. Don’t rush.
5. Do what he/she always wants you to do
To gain his/her forgiveness by doing what he/she appreciates you before. For example, your love likes your desserts, you can promise to make one for him/her as compensation. Or, you can buy what his/her favourite as soon as possible to show you love her and put him/her as first.
These advice are effective because your love won’t let you feel low even when they are mad.