5個初次約會的Don'ts (II) 5 Don'ts at the first date (II)

1. 邀請其他朋友

可能你覺得二人相處很尷尬,想邀請共同朋友一起晚餐,那你只會令對方以為你不想與他約會,令他卻步呢。或許以後你們熟絡一點才邀請其他朋友一起約會吧。 

2. 常看時間

如果被對方發現你常看時間,又好像心不在焉似的,他心裡都想快點結束約會啊。 與其不停看時間,倒不如看看近來有什麼趣事可一起分享吧!

3. 談話內容太個人

你都希望互相能多了解一些,你可能多問一些個人的事,但有些問題會惹人討厭,例如:你月薪多少?過於私人的問題不適宜在首次約會討論,要注意點啊!

4. 嫌東嫌西 

每個人都有自己喜好,但面對著餐廳環境不合心意,食物味道𣎴好的,而你說很難吃,免費的我都不吃,這些說話都會讓人覺得你很挑剔,嫌東嫌西。相反,你可以事前跟對方商量好你想要什麼,你們都贊成的就可避免尷尬情況的了

5. 爭結帳

可能你想表示好意,想請對方吃飯,但爭相結帳可能會有點做作。女孩子說AA制的是一種禮貌, 不過有紳士風範的都最好不要接受了。

1. Group dating

It is not suitable for group. You are now trying to get familiar with each other and give your best impression. They might think that you don’t want to go for the date and so invite others. You might miss the date then. 

2. Check the time too often

If they notice you check the time too often, they might think “are you impatience to leave?”, they might be frustrated. Why don’t you think of some funny topics to share with them, instead of checking time? 

3. Talking too personal

Too personal and sensitive questions like, “Hows your salary?”, are not really suitable to discuss in the first date. They might not want to tell you and think somehow you are impolite. 

4. Too picky

Please don’t complain of the date planning. You can appreciate the things they plan and suggest going to your favourite eateries, or discuss together for the next dates first. 

5. Fight over bills

The bill split is the girls’ offer which is appreciated, the gentlemen shouldn’t accept, at least on the first date.