5 個初次約會的Don'ts (I)

5 Dont's for the first date (I)

 

1. 遲到 守時是最基本的尊重,如果你令對方等待的,他約會的心情就未必那麼興致勃勃了,他會想你下次約會可能又會遲到呢。當然除非你遇上急事,逼著要遲點見面的,那對方就應該體諒一下了。 Be late  Being punctual is a respect. They will be disappointing for the dates if you keep them waiting so long without a good reason. 

1. 遲到

守時是最基本的尊重,如果你令對方等待的,他約會的心情就未必那麼興致勃勃了,他會想你下次約會可能又會遲到呢。當然除非你遇上急事,逼著要遲點見面的,那對方就應該體諒一下了。

Be late 

Being punctual is a respect. They will be disappointing for the dates if you keep them waiting so long without a good reason. 

2. 逃避眼神 始終是第一次見面,面對面坐的時候你會有點害羞,目光不知要放到哪裡才好。這樣左顧右盼的眼神只會令對方覺得你沒有興趣和他一起相處。要將對方看在眼內啊! Eyes wandering  You may feel shy to look into him/her for the first date, but your eyes can’t wander around. Please look into their eyes and give response to their words. 

2. 逃避眼神

始終是第一次見面,面對面坐的時候你會有點害羞,目光不知要放到哪裡才好。這樣左顧右盼的眼神只會令對方覺得你沒有興趣和他一起相處。要將對方看在眼內啊!

Eyes wandering 

You may feel shy to look into him/her for the first date, but your eyes can’t wander around. Please look into their eyes and give response to their words. 

3. 專注電話 你要約會的不是電話啊,活生生和你一起約會的是他,他絕對值得你留意的。你要是一直低著頭跟電話交流的話,可別怪他不再跟你約會了。 Keep texting You are not dating with your phone, but the real and charming person in front of you! Don’t blame anyone if they ignore you after the date. 

3. 專注電話

你要約會的不是電話啊,活生生和你一起約會的是他,他絕對值得你留意的。你要是一直低著頭跟電話交流的話,可別怪他不再跟你約會了。

Keep texting

You are not dating with your phone, but the real and charming person in front of you! Don’t blame anyone if they ignore you after the date. 

4. 期望太多 很多人都希望第一次約會會有多驚喜,多感動。不要多想了,其實初次單獨約會都想先了解對方的,雙方都是戰戰兢兢的心態啊,可能約會最後都是簡單吃個飯。大家先用心了解對方,例如喜好,下次才有機會送你喜歡的。 Expect too much  You may expect there will be surprises or gifts after the meal. How would they do if they don’t familiar with your favourites. They will try to surprise you next time after knowing each other well.  

4. 期望太多

很多人都希望第一次約會會有多驚喜,多感動。不要多想了,其實初次單獨約會都想先了解對方的,雙方都是戰戰兢兢的心態啊,可能約會最後都是簡單吃個飯。大家先用心了解對方,例如喜好,下次才有機會送你喜歡的。

Expect too much 

You may expect there will be surprises or gifts after the meal. How would they do if they don’t familiar with your favourites. They will try to surprise you next time after knowing each other well.  

5. 過分打扮/太隨意打扮 雖然你很希望可以在對方心中留下深刻印象,但如果你打扮得太刻意,妝容又比平常濃得誇張的話,只怕對方會有點嚇怕了。相反你太隨意打扮,拖鞋衛衣的,除非你們去吃小販檔吧。只要打扮得與自己相襯,給人一種看起來舒服整齊的樣子就好了。 Dress overly/ too casual  Please dress up for different occasions. They will feel weird either you dress overly or too casual. Just give a smart and tidy look for the date.

5. 過分打扮/太隨意打扮

雖然你很希望可以在對方心中留下深刻印象,但如果你打扮得太刻意,妝容又比平常濃得誇張的話,只怕對方會有點嚇怕了。相反你太隨意打扮,拖鞋衛衣的,除非你們去吃小販檔吧。只要打扮得與自己相襯,給人一種看起來舒服整齊的樣子就好了。

Dress overly/ too casual 

Please dress up for different occasions. They will feel weird either you dress overly or too casual. Just give a smart and tidy look for the date.